There are signs to watch for in both young boys (and girls) to see if they are being abused. Is the child having sleep problems or nightmares? Is he depressed or withdrawing from friends or family? Is he refusing to go to school? Does he have an unusual interest in or is he avoiding all things of a sexual nature? Is he saying his body is dirty or damaged, or is he scared something is wrong in his genital area? If a child is displaying any of these signs, talk to a counselor or pediatrician.
Most men who were abused never tell. Every time someone, especially a celebrity, reveals the shadow that has led them to addiction and other dysfunction, a light is cast out into the darkness. Sexual abuse is far more prevalent than anyone can imagine. It cuts across all strata of society, ignoring color, gender, race, religion, and socio-economic status. When we become more fully awake to its reality, perhaps we will not hesitate to recognize the signs of abuse and do something to stop it.
Awareness is the key. Tom Arnold has done his part; let all follow his example.
